The petitioner sought a faculty to erect a headstone in the churchyard of St Cuthbert’s, Kentmere, to commemorate his late wife, Lucy Nelson, who was widely known as “Cinders”. An initial informal approach did not proceed, for various reasons. Following consultation, a petition was presented for a new design, using riven slate with V-cut lettering, and featuring a carved sunflower motif on its reverse. It received unanimous PCC support and favourable advice from the DAC, which praised the quality of its design and confirmed that it would not set an unwelcome precedent. The DAC accepted the use of “Lucy” as an appropriate contraction of the deceased’s given name and expressed concern only as to the practicalities of the placement of the name “Cinders” on the reverse of the stone. The Chancellor accepted the DAC's advice but concluded that, in the particular circumstances, personal expression and the deceased’s own preferences justified allowing the name “Cinders” to appear on the reverse beneath the sunflower motif. A faculty was therefore granted. The petitioner was ordered to pay the costs of the petition.